The choice of who to marry has been misconstrued by many Youths, who without precaution jump in and out of relationships. Many have started with a strong heart filled with love and ended up getting their heart battered in the process and replaced the initial heart once filled with love with LUST. They found themselves in a union they didn’t plan for, they ended up resorting to a fate the designer never made, they wasted years and other resources chasing the wind and ended up accepting a failure they configured themselves as DESTINY.
Wole had promised himself of not getting involved with his fellow student; he had tried to hook up with a friend he loved who is not a Uite even before he gained admission so as to get serious with life business. Although the relationship came into existence out of the love he had for her but it crumbled after a year of Wole’s admission. She claimed she quitted the relationship because she needed time to pursue her dream. Wole decided to continue with his plan of not dating any student of UI, but as humans with hormones all over his bloodstream; he broke his vow and went out with one of his friends. This happened because the girl was a confidant who helped him nurse the pain of the heartbreak caused by his EX. It was obvious to Wole that he only liked her but he thought he would grow into love in due time, the relationship after a month got broken, he couldn’t stop the resistance of another friend who became so close to him. Within a year, he had dated three of his friends and lost them all after the relationships collapsed.
It is not about how long but how well. Many Students like Wole have traveled the journey of life with an innocent mind but on their way met robbers who stole their heart away and left them with the concern of how to live heartlessly. The quest for solution made them break more hearts, and lost many friendships they worked laboriously to build because they wanted a Partner when they are not qualified for one. You don’t need a search engine like DEVILFINDER OR GOOGLE to tell you that some relationships can’t work because of the people involved. Imagine when an amateur flies a plane? Try and think of what could happen when a quack does surgery? What do you think will happen when a rookie constructs a building? So don’t be amazed when some relationships don’t work out, instead learn from their stupidity. After all, nothing should be expected from someone who has failed to grasp something out of life lessons and continued ranting that LIFE IS UNFAIR.
In conclusion, proper planning prevents Poor performance. To Excel in your relationship or to make your relationship succeed and end up in marriage, you need to realize that ANYBODY is not meant for you because just SOMEBODY was destined as your PARTNER. How you go about that is for you to be sincere with yourself. You will definitely know her when she comes, because you will love her more than any being, she is compatible with you, she will believe in your dreams, she will tolerate you than anyone because she understands you than anyone would, she and her offspring you both shall procreate is your responsibility and until you meet her you won’t end your hunt, so stop deceiving yourself with that relationship you are struggling with, because you have to find her, that is why one of the HOLY BOOKS SAYS: HE THAT FINDS A WIFE, FINDS A GOOD THING. To find her, you have to keep this that you learnt today at the back of your mind and know this especially: SHE IS NOT JUST ANYBODY BECAUSE SHE IS JUST THAT SPECIAL PERSON THAT WILL MAKE YOUR DREAMS COME TO PASS! SHE IS THE BEST OF ALL WOMEN IN YOUR WORLD, so search diligently, apply wisdom because it is the principal thing so that you can construe the true meaning of LOVE. DON’T DATE WHO YOU CAN’T MARRY!
AS YOU GO THROUGH THE MARRIAGE JOURNEY, WE SHALL SEE NEXT WEEK, TILL THEN I REMAIN YOUR MARITAL PSYCHOLOGIST IN VIEW!
