Little foxes

 

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There are so many things in a relationship that are taken for granted because they seem too minute to be given utmost importance. Partners in relationship, especially ladies, consider these things unnecessary and therefore little or no attention to such things. But keep in mind ladies, these are little foxes that can ruin your relationship and keep your man away.

 

v Most ladies do not mind what they say to their boyfriends, they feel the guy is supposed to understand anything they say and at the same time understand them when they are not communicating. Now this is it; a guy also needs to be talked to just the way you want him to talk to you. Respect him with your speech, do not talk to him like a younger brother, do not talk to in a disrespectful manner in front of his or your friends, remember, men have a lot of ego. He might not tell you at first that he is not comfortable with the way you talk to him, he would just avoid talking too you as much as possible. Tell me what good a relationship is without good communication? So ladies, utter words of wisdom to your man, it helps a lot. It makes him want to stick around and talk to you more.

v Be original. Now this is one big part most ladies fail at, being original. It is so amazing how some ladies try to impress a guy at all means even if it makes them being fake forever. Guys are smarter now, they know the drill, they know when you are not being original and it hurts them to see themselves spending much time with your unoriginality.

 Okay let’s do it this way, how will you feel if you find out that the guy you are dating has been faking all along? You are definitely going to think break up. Be original in your talk, walk, work, attitude and everything. Trust me, he is gonna like you for who you are but if he doesn’t like your real personality, then let him go, he is not just that into you.

 

 

vYour friends. Yes, your choice of friends can make your man stay or put him off. Most guys may not be blunt about this, they just be like ‘’oh your friend again’’. Now there two things that runs through a guy’s mind when he talks often about your friend; its either he likes her or he hates her, there can never be a neutral feeling in cases like this. So its up to you to strike a balance between your man and your friends. If your man dislikes your friend because he thinks she might influence you, try and make him understand that you love him and put your friend in check. But please make sure you keep the good friends.

 

LOPEE

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